Six Little Things That Make a Huge Difference

Pointers to Ponder, Part II

March 23, 2011

Last edition I shared with you three of the little things that make a huge difference in our lives.

After contemplating all the many things that came to mind, I finally narrowed my list down to what I believe to be the six little things that make a big difference. I did not include money in my list because I have seen how money can subtly deceive people and cause them to be so engulfed in it to the point of not having time for others. The first three little things that make such a huge difference on my list are: saying Masha Danki ....Thank You, Showing Kindness, and Listening Attentively.

Today, I am presenting the other three little things that make a big difference.

4. Give sincere praise.

Just about everyone I meet and know appreciates being appreciated, though how they prefer it to be expressed varies. But in general, and with very few exceptions, an honest compliment is something that is always welcome. Sincere praise creates instant rapport, and bridges many an awkward gap. It causes people to connect almost immediately. There is always, always something that you can praise or compliment somebody for. This is another one of those little things that make such a huge difference in people’s lives. We love getting compliments, and in the same way others love getting them from us. There is something magical about a compliment, it sounds like sweet music in someone’s ears, and it breaks down walls of mistrust and even shyness.

Giving praise definitely is one of those little things that make a huge difference! The next little thing that makes a huge difference is:

5. Practice Good manners.

Good manners are the lubricant for all social involvements. They oil the machine of humanity. Using good manners conveys respect, both for self and for others. I know, we have lost the sense of respect for each other today. It seems that especially young people consider respect old fashion or something to be shunned....