Seven Habits: Habits 1-3

Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Habits 1-3

The 7 habits of Highly Effective People is written for people to get to know their habits, and to be a positive influence of personal change. The book introduces a basis for understanding what a habit is, stating we can change our own habits, and also our perceptions. These habits represent “the internalization of correct principles upon which enduring happiness and success are based.” (Covey, 23). In my own thoughts this sentence means habits form an individual’s perceptions, values, and ethics; and it is in our power to change these habits to reach happiness and success.

Habit 1

Habit one focuses on being a more proactive person, as opposed to being a “yes” man. This habit truly hits home for me, since I have a laidback attitude and low confidence. For example, most of the times I second guess myself when I perform tasks that are solely relied upon me. At my work, I find myself constantly reaffirming my tasks; hoping I do everything exactly how my boss wants it to be done. Usually I do everything great, but there are those moments when little mistakes happen. These little mistakes create more anxiety than I already have, so I tend to be over critical and reactive instead of proactive. This attitude can be seen by people around me, and what they see is an entirely different person than what I truly am. Dwelling on mistakes is a reactive approach. What needs to happen is the instantaneous acknowledgement of the mistakes, and corrective action of them.

To be proactive, and to turn this habit around I will have to take steps in being more aware of my actions. I need to focus on the things that I can change, as opposed to the things that are without my control. I must realize it is me who is in charge of this life, and I have the freedom to choose my outcomes. I must also take the initiative, and recognize my responsibility to make things happen.

This proactive approach will expand...