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Date Submitted: 05/22/2012 01:04 AM
Topic
Research indicates that the characteristics we are born with have much more
influence on our personality and development than any experiences we may have in
our life. Which do you consider to be the major influence?
An Answer
(1)Personality is a very important trait which accelerates the development of an
individual. It is said that the first impression is the last impression. Personality gives
that first impression to anyone we meet. P ersonality is often thought as physical
appearance, but it includes the attitude, aptitude, behavior and physical
appearance, all amalgamated in one term. Some researchers believe that the born
characteristics are more important for the development of personality than the real
experiences of life. However, real experiences in life is the driving force which can
have both, good or bad, effects on an individual's personality.
(2)Most importantly, experience helps in learning and sharpening of one's skills.
Experience aids in identifying the weaknesses and turning it into strength . Exposure
determines the effect on an individual. When a person has a good social circle,
comprising intelligent, skilled and dedicated people, it will inspire the individual and
they will also learn new things. Thus, exposure and the experiences gained from it
will affect the approach and overall skills of an individual.
(3)Nevertheless, personality development depends on the determination, efforts and
the experiences gained from it. Education systems have included personality
development classes to let the students share their thoughts and have new learning
experiences. For instance, Arnold Schwarznegger was born in a farmer family, in
Austria. It was due to his efforts and the experiences he gained which made him the
world known body-builder and then the Governor of California.
(4)However, some people think that born characteristics are enough for the
development. But this is a myth, far from reality . A diamond is a very...