Children Having Children

The article entitled that “ On children having children”. The author for this article is written by Azrul Mohd Khalib. He works on HIV/AIDS, sex and human rights issues. Mr. Azrul is becoming cynical and is in danger of losing his sense of humour and mind. Furthermore, writer also runs and is battling an addiction to the “A song of ice and Fire” book series. The purpose of this article is to persuade those young couple especially urban young Malays between ages 19 to 24 have to think clearly before gets marriage for the wrong reasons and to avoid future harm to the innocent children. Author believed that those young couple are not yet ready to become parents and they are not mature enough. Marriage is a huge responsibility and its a heavy burden to those young parents. They need to experience the hardships of living independently and learn to take good care to themselves before take care to their children. The author's tone in these article are suspicion and distrust. Author distrust nowadays teenagers can take heavy sense of responsibility to take care a family.

Nowadays, there are more and more young people prefer to get marriage whether they are capable, weak or enough for the responsibilities. Marriage is a huge responsibility that we cannot study about it in school or university. We need to experience the hardships of living independently, earning a wage to pay bills and feed yourself, learning to take care of yourself and living life to the fullest and as best as possible. The year of experience gained from single-hood prepares a person for marriage. There is no any shortcut or easy way to go about it. It often seems that marriage is the simplistic solution to so many problem. The boys and girls are doing wrong in school, their parents will just ask them to marry. Very often, we get caught up with the idea of the wedding day itself. Wedding party is just a few days but the marriage involves a whole lifetime. Of cause, there is the blame falls on the...