How to End a Relationship

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25 September 2012

How to End a Relationship

I learned there are several ways to go about ending a relationship. Every few months I find a friend to talk to. We will talk for maybe three months then I will decide if we are compatible. My problem is that relationships frighten me; so, I sabotage them. I get mad for no reason; accuse him of cheating, which makes him angry. Not everyone has the same technique to end a relationship.

First, I call him repeatedly until he answers. This makes me mad calling a person and being ignored. That ends a relationship fast with me. When he does answer, I ask all types of questions like, “Where have you been?” “Who are you with?” and “Why aren’t you answering my phone calls?” I make him second guess himself .Even though I know I am playing with his head, I actually believe my reasons are logical. Then, when he finishes explaining himself I get mad, and say that’s a lie.

Next, I usually free style on this part and make up a name; for example, while we are talking about our situation I am in my phone looking for a believable name. Lately I’ve been on Facebook looking on his page, I look for wall posts that say “Hey, sweetie stopping by to show your wall some love “or “I miss you baby talk to you soon”. Those post make a person second guest his or her relationships. When I see something like that it makes me wonder if they have something going on. So, I just assume there cheating because nine out of ten times they are. I can say that from personal experience I’ve had with other guys.

Finally, I say something like I never wanted to be in the relationship anyway. That makes him mad. When a person is he or she might say things they do not mean. But for me it makes everything worthwhile. Once he says something I feel is out of line I end it. To see how much a person can take from another person is a rush. I realize some people can only take so much until they snap, I like to push people until they do snap.

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