Social Science

Stratford University

Man should communicate and compromise to minimize life changes after marriage

by

Avishkumar Patel

EBM 502, Research Methods

Professor Dr. Jimi Peters

December, 4 2011.

Man should communicate and compromise to minimize life changes after marriage

After the completion of school, people usually think the real enjoyment of life starts. However, it only last until one gets marry. Most of us treat marriage as an important life goal, and the vast majority of us will marry at least once in our lifetime. Most men get married in their mid-thirties, hoping that their marriage will be the happy one. But this hope might be wrong. The intention of this paper is to educate men about the realities of what they may get into when they get married, instead of stopping them from marrying. With this realization a man should communicate his concerns and expectations to his wife, and try to avoid undesirable changes in marriage life. Meanwhile, woman should also be understanding and supportive of what their husbands’ do, in order for them to have a successful marriage, in order to decrease the increasing number of successful eligible unmarried men, who prefer long-term relationships instead of marital relationships.

A man makes his family and has new roles and responsibilities after he gets married. Before marriage, a man is a part of his parent’s family. Therefore, his parents have to care for him. His father has to earn money to feed the family and sometimes his mother also has to earn money or she has to take care of family at home. As a result, their son will only enjoy the life and he doesn’t have to care much other than his studies. Even when sons are earning money by doing jobs in Hollister, American Eagle, Aeropostale, etc, those guys are not working to feed their parent’s family. They are doing such jobs to get some extra money and also to have fun. Once a man gets married, he will be tied up into a bond...