Object of Affection

When I think about a person that is an object of my affection a lot of things come to my mind. The first thing is that of course I have to have a physical attraction to them. Then the mental attraction will come next then as we get closer the other thing will build. I do look at the age because I don’t anyone that is younger than me and that older me. I really don’t look at the race because to me it’s more than your skin color, I don’t look at religion because what you practice is your choice, the social class or your residence because that doesn’t really make a person.

The person that is the object of my affection we are 50/50. The reason why I say that is because we are similar because of what we out of life and some of our goals are the same. Our attitudes are somewhat alike that’s why we clash a lot. We are different because some things in life we look at differently and our minds think different in so many ways but I guess that’s what brings us close because I guess we balance each other out.

This relates to the similarity of attraction because it is like I look at all the things that I like about him and I see what really attracted me to him. To me it was more than just a physical thing that made me attracted he was his mind and his company as well. I guess that’s what brought us together to have this attraction. But to me a lot of people look at a person and tried to figure out all the things that they have In common and think that they will have a better relationship but sometimes opposites really to attract.